If you’re facing the end of your marriage, you have a lot of concerns. One of your questions is likely to be: How much will a divorce cost? The answer to that question will depend on many different things, including whether you hire a lawyer (and if so, how much that lawyer charges), whether your spouse is combative or collegial, whether you have children at home, how much property and debt you have to divide between you, whether one of you is requesting alimony—and the list goes on. It’s a similar story if you want to know how long your divorce might take.

The divorce survey asked readers about a number of things, including:

  • how much their divorce attorneys charged per hour
  • how much they spent in total divorce costs
  • the number of issues that they resolved through a settlement or trial
  • how long the divorce process took from start to finish, and
  • their level of satisfaction with the outcome.

Here’s what we learned from their answers.

Hourly Rates for Divorce Lawyers

Although most people would prefer to have an attorney by their side when going through a divorce, many also worry about how much this will cost. Even if you’ve called around or visited the websites of various divorce attorneys, you may still wonder if a lawyer is charging too much, or even too little (which could be an indication that the lawyer doesn’t have enough experience or is desperate for clients).

Nationwide, the readers in our survey reported paying their attorneys an average of $270 per hour. However, individual rates varied a lot. Although nearly seven in ten readers (69%) paid between $200 and $300 an hour, about one in ten (11%) paid $100 per hour, and two in ten (20%) paid $400 or more. Our separate study on hourly rates reported by family lawyers across the U.S. showed significant regional differences, with the highest rates reported by attorneys in coastal metropolitan areas. The same study also showed that rates were higher for more experienced attorneys—no big surprise there—and that about half of family law attorneys offer free consultations for potential new clients.

The Average Total Cost of Divorce

When all was said and done, what did the average person pay, in total, to get divorced? For readers who hired a full-scope divorce lawyer—meaning that the attorney handled everything in the case, from start to finish—the average total costs were $12,900. That included $11,300 in attorneys’ fees and about $1,600 in expenses such as court costs and fees for child custody evaluators, real estate appraisers, tax advisors, and other experts.

If those results give you sticker shock, it may help to remember that a few people with very high costs can skew the average. To find out what more typical readers paid, we also looked at the median—the middle of the range, where half paid less and half paid more. In our survey, the median total divorce cost was $7,500, including $7,000 in lawyers’ fees and $500 in other expenses. It may also help to know that more than four in 10 readers (42%) paid $5,000 or less in attorneys’ fees.

How Disputes and Trial Affect the Cost of Divorce

In order to dig deeper into what makes some divorces cost more than others, we asked readers about the contested issues in their divorces—such as disagreements over child custody, child supportalimony, and the division of their property and debts—and whether they resolved those issues through an out-of-court settlement or only after a trial. The results showed that going to trial can double divorce costs. Average total costs were $10,600 (including attorneys’ fees) for readers who reached a comprehensive settlement on any disputes in their divorce. Those average costs jumped to $20,379 for those who went to trial on at least one issue and $23,300 if they had a trial on two or more issues.

How Long Does the Average Divorce Case Take?

Another pressing question about divorce is how long the process takes, from filing the petition to a settlement or final court judgment. In our survey, the overall average duration of divorce was a year. Here again, the picture was worse for those who went to trial. For readers who went to trial on at least one issue, it took an average of 18 months to complete the process—and even longer if they had to resolve two or more issues.

Bringing Down Divorce Costs: Uncontested Divorces, Mediation, and Consulting Attorneys

Beyond doing everything you can to avoid a trial, our survey results pointed to some other possibilities for lowering the cost of divorce.

  • Uncontested divorce. Nearly a third (30%) of readers said they had no major contested issues in their divorces, and their costs were much lower than the overall average: $4,100, on average, including attorneys’ fees. They also got through the process more quickly—an average of eight months. Many of these readers may have been eligible to take advantage of a streamlined divorce process known as an “uncontested divorce” or a “summary dissolution,” which is available in many states for couples who meet specific requirements.
  • Mediation or collaborative divorce. Some couples turn to collaborative divorce or mediation in an attempt to reach a settlement agreement. Neither of these alternatives work for everyone, but they could save you money. Nearly a third of the readers in our survey tried mediation; on average, they spent $970 on mediation costs, although half spent $500 or less.
  • Consulting attorneys. If you can’t afford to hire a full-scope divorce attorney, it’s still wise to seek out legal advice or help at some point along the way—especially to make sure that your rights are protected in any settlement. You might be able to hire a consulting attorney for specific tasks, such as helping you understand and complete divorce forms, preparing for mediation, drafting or reviewing a proposed settlement agreement, or representing you in court appearances. In our survey, only one in 10 readers said they had hired a consulting lawyer in their divorce. But those readers typically saved a lot of money on attorneys’ fees; the average total fees for consulting attorneys were $4,600, and the median total was $3,000.